Every human being comes with attitudes, both positive and
negative. Those who succeed in life have
unearthed their positive attitude and any negative attitude has been buried in
their old self. According to Wade Boggs
said, “A positive attitude causes a chain reaction
of positive thoughts, events and outcomes. It is a catalyst and it sparks
extraordinary results”.
If you want to come out victorious in this life of single motherhood, you
must learn to unearth your positive attitude.
A positive attitude will give you the freedom and capability to turn the
lemons that life throws at you into lemonade juice.
Here are some tips to help you unearth your positive attitude:
- Count your blessings. Every morning, declare that you are
blessed with life, good health, sunshine, kids, work, business, friends,
family, home, car, talents, skills, etc.
If it is raining, be thankful that you have an umbrella; if you need
to walk, be grateful that you have feet or the health to do so. Always find a reason to be thankful
whatever circumstance you are in. Make it a habit to count your blessings.
- Find the joy in the moment. Look for a
reason to be happy in your situation. It is joyful to prepare your kids
for school – wake them up and get that good morning kiss and power hug.
- Vow to smile always. Start in the morning. Smile when you
wake up. Smile as you face the mirror to say “you look good today J”. A smile enlightens you and brings out
that positive attitude that will make you enjoy your day.
- Choose not to worry. Studies reveal that only 8% of the
things people worry actually happens.
Worry causes emotional and physical harm, so choose not to worry. Rather, expect the best but be prepared
for the worse.
- Forgive others, forgive yourself. Humans
are bound to make mistakes. Do not
sulk in your mistakes or your hurt feelings caused by people around you. Forgive,
learn from your mistakes and move on.
- Be an agent of positive attitude. A positive attitude is as contagious as
a negative attitude. Be an agent of
positive attitude by influencing those around you to unearth their
positive attitude. When people see
you smiling, happy and with a bright perspective in all circumstances, you
tend to attract them. Soon you will
find people around you having that same positive attitude as you do and
negative attitude will not have any room in your environment and circle of
friends.
- You are your own master. When negative
thoughts start creeping in, tell your mind that these negative thoughts
have no room in your life. Command
your mind to erase negativity and invite only positive thoughts. Keep your mind focused on unearthing
positive attitude and taking forward steps to your dreams and aspirations.
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